In the hustle and bustle of modern life, it’s easy to forget the roots from which we’ve grown. The essence of humility lies not in self-deprecation, but in a profound sense of remembrance. In Deuteronomy 8:18, we are reminded, “But remember the Lord your God, for it is he who gives you the ability to produce wealth, and so confirms his covenant, which he swore to your ancestors, as it is today.”
The Power of Remembering:
To truly grasp the essence of humility, we must remember. Remember the struggles, the pain, and the adversity faced. For it is in these challenges that we find the seeds of our strength. Every scar, every hardship endured, is a testament to our journey. Just as Jesus bears his scars as a reminder of his love for humanity, our scars remind us of our resilience.
I recall a time when I had to trek to school and sometimes in the pouring rain due to financial hardships. It was a stark contrast from the life of abundance we once knew. My father’s demotion marked a downturn in our lives (a story for another day). Today, that memory serves as a beacon of humility, a reminder of where I came from. It is a story of transformation and strength, born from adversity.
Sharing the Journey:
One of the most significant mistakes we make as leaders is not sharing our stories of struggle with those who look up to us. We often present only the rewards, not the trials. This lack of transparency breeds a generation unaware of the resilience required in the pursuit of dreams. As a result, they may miss the profound lessons that pain can teach.
Pain is not a punishment; it is a gift. It teaches us endurance, strength, and the importance of process. It is through sharing our pain that we empower others to navigate their own struggles. When we reveal the stories behind our scars, we provide a roadmap for those who follow, reminding them that every challenge is an opportunity for growth.
The Wisdom of Process:
Carelessness creeps in when the process is ignored. It is in the struggle, the pain, and the endurance that we discover our true potential. Humility, therefore, is not about self-abasement, but about embracing our journey with grace and resilience. It is a testament to the transformative power of remembering, both our own experiences and the divine guidance that shapes our paths.
In conclusion, let us embrace our scars and share the stories behind them. Let us remember our struggles and, in doing so, illuminate the path for others. Humility is not a sign of weakness; it is a mark of wisdom and strength. By acknowledging our past and sharing our pain, we uplift not only ourselves but also those who walk beside us, ensuring that the journey toward success is marked not only by achievement but also by the lessons learned along the way.
